Almost every man in this world ask himself the same questions: „Am I happy ? How can I be happy ? How can I remove all psychical pressure from my mind ?“. The new psychology methods don’t study only illnesses anymore. They study man’s happiness, too. Results in this area shows, that source of man’s happiness is quite easily available in our everyday life. It is communication and honesty. Every one of us has his own secrets, pains, sufferings. We seem strange to ourselves and sometime we feel like the only person in the world, because we think , that nobody can understand us. We are scared of sharing our feelings with other people, because than they can judge and hurt us. Actually, this scare blocks our freedom. When we meet somebody who can hear and understand us, we feel happy. When we share our feelings with somebody, it can make us free and we understand ourselves, because when we talk about us, we can realize facts about our mind and know better our psychical part of being. But the main problem is, that maybe there is a lot of people around us, but only few of them can hear you with comprehension and understanding. It is something like art, to hear somebody, be empathic and comprehensive. We want to understand somebody, we need to imagine how it is, to walk in his shoes. We need to carefully hear every word, read the melody of man’s voice, bodylanguage and so on. Sometimes it can be really hard, because we all percept this world in our special individual way. Things that seems disgusting to us, can be very nice for somebody. It is very important to realize that man’s mind is product of genes and environment we live in. That’s the reason why we cannot judge anybody, because we are not able to have complete control of our mind evolution. If we understand this fact, we can be very good listeners and make people around us happy. Furthermore if we see the world through their eyes, it helps us to throw away our own angers and to see the world more objective. It is up to us if we want to make our people happy and be a better human beings.
In my opinion, it is all about knowledge and understanding.
OdpovedaťOdstrániťThrough communication we can achieve both things: knowledge of the world that surrounds us and understanding of other people's lives as well as of ours. But why is it that these makes us happy?
I think it may be related to a feeling of safety that comes, at the same time, from a feeling of confidence. By knowing what and whom are we surrounded by, both its advantages and its disadvantages, we feel more secure and able to respond to any situation in which we can find ourselves. And that makes us feel happy.